-No success without failing
Failure does not lie in losing a game but in losing one’s heart. Keep pushing forward toward your goals. All attempts made may not be fruitful. Nothing worth having is easy to get. Success takes willpower, intelligence, determination, and grit. But more than anything else, it requires failure. Realizing the pain of failure tells us how difficult it is to succeed. The value of success will have worth and respect only after walking through failure.
THE NEED TO FAIL
– Essential for growth
Failure is the blacksmith’s hammer that tempers the sword of success. It builds and molds you into a stronger and wiser person. It helps you to reach new heights and potential. It builds character and makes you humble. It also toughens you and makes you more resilient over time. Moreover, failures provide us with an opportunity to introspect. As we reflect on ourselves and what we are doing, we see what we have done wrong and what needs to change.
– Helps change perspective/approach
Failure teaches us a valuable lesson of what not to do. We also learn from the failures of others and pave our way by avoiding their mistakes, but actual experience and judgment only come from our own efforts and actions. We shouldn’t shy away from experiencing failures and face them head-on instead. You would feel fear and insecurity at first. But after overcoming it, you will feel a sense of accomplishment.
– Motivates to perform better
Failure builds our experience and helps us reflect on everything we learn, feel, and see throughout the process and convert them into factors that motivate us to perform better. Let yourself feel the emotions, reassess the situation, and channel them into an action that will help you improve. Keep asking yourself these questions-
- What brought about the failure?
- How much of it is affected by my actions?
- What steps do I need to go through to try again?
- What can I do to ensure that my next try is better?
-Conclusion
Failures tend to attack when nobody expects them in different forms. It is simply a bump in the road to achieving success. However, most see failure as the end of one road and leave it behind. View these failures as learning opportunities. How you stand back up after you fail is the one to remember, not how you failed.